How to Create Couple / Group profiles?

First you create individual profiles as we normally create a male or female. Please completely fill in each of the profiles. Then create a new profile and select Couple or Group as gender. This will then ask you to add individual user names which is part of this new profile. e.g. for Couple, you may give user names of two profiles.
When user searches for couples, system will display the Couple profile details and will give link for profile of each individual member.

You can identify one or more independent profiles as part of a Couple or Group profile. Like a Man profile and Woman profile, or combination of two profiles can be treated as a Couple profile. If the number of profiles is more than two, then make it a Group profile

Why wont some of my Photos upload?

The most common reason is the photo is to large, you will need to resize the photo to a smaller size, preferred to be below 800 x 600 is best, most digital cameras are set to take photos of 1500 x 2000.

Can I add my favorite YouTube video?

Yes you can. Just place the share link code from the Youtube video that you want to use.

How do I upload my own mpeg and avi videos and What is Flv and swf formats?

To upload your flv or swf videos, go to the member panel and under My Profile you will see a link called My Video Gallery, click this link and you will see the Upload Video Here, below that is the browse button to upload your videos. Once your video is uploaded you will see a link where you can preview your video.

You only have videos in mpeg and avi video formats, dont worry there is a FREE tool called Internet Video Convertor 1.41.exe which you can download from this link Internet Video Convertor 1.41

You will need to install this software to your computer so you can convert your videos so you can upload the flv video to your video gallary use the (Video to Flash) section. Please keep videos smaller than 4 megabytes.

Adult videos are not allowed to be public or we will deleted them...
Dont upload copyright videos!!

When someone emails me, where does the email go and how do I respond?

When a member sends you a note, it goes straight into your onsite message Inbox. We then send an email to your personal email address to let you know that it's there.

To read the note, simply login to the site and go to your Inbox. If you decide to write back, simply click "reply", write your own note and send away. Your note will go straight into the member's onsite Inbox, and we'll let them know it's there with an email to their personal email address.

All communications with other members stay onsite so that you never have to give out any personal information until you feel completely ready. Then when you are, you can exchange phone numbers and even meet in person.

What is the purpose behind Instant Messenger, how do i get benefit from it?

This application is a faster way of communicating to other members of the site who are online. Its lists all the members who are online. When you send message, recipient will receive message and would reply. If unfortunately recipient doesn't receive message for some reason, then that message will be send to his onsite message Inbox.

Instant Messenger uses a popup.

Go to your Popup Blocker and allow popups for this site, then go back to send a Instant messege to someone and there you go, all working.

Can I block members I dont want to chat to in instant messenger? Yes.

To Chat with the new 121 Instant Messenger, you need to click on the link to open the main IM options so you can see other members who are online ( You will Only See Others Members Online if they have logged in the messanger )

To Chat to another member, just click on the username you want to chat to and if they accept your chat from their side it will open a chat window, thats all there is to it.

How do I change my email address or password?

You can change your email address on the "edit your profile" page. Here you can change some other information including search preferences, address and other preferences about your daily routines, habits, hobbies etc.
You found this link in member panel menu, when got login.
After you've made your changes, click "Save" at the bottom of the page to save.

How does "My Matches" work?

My Matches works according to the basic profile and "search preferences" at the bottom of the "edit profile" page.

Do people actually meet on your site? Do they ever get married?

Thousands of people meet on our site daily and go on to date and start relationships. We've also had hundreds of marriages across many borders. To see for yourself, check the site for real stories of real connections.

How do I edit my profile? How do I hide my profile?

To update your profile, click "Edit Profile" in Members Panel menu. Be sure to save your changes at the bottom of the screen when you're done.

Try to put your best foot forward with at least one photo and snappy, detailed essays about your interests. The photo is key since most people feel more comfortable writing to members they can see. Try to stay positive in your essays and let the real you shine.

To hide your profile, select "No" for the option "Other members can see when I'm online?" on the "Edit Profile" page . Keep in mind, however, that members who are most active on the site keep their profile visible in all places because it ups their chances of connecting with people. And you never know, someone special may be looking for you and never get to find you if your profile is hidden.

When I suspend my membership, does it end my subscription? Can I put my subscription on hold?

No. Once you signed up for a subscription, it will remain active for life, as it says in the Terms of Use you agreed to when signing up.